Struggles in Christian marriages

i found a few interesting articles on christian marriages, issues i feel it is relevant and sometimes caught us unaware of....sometimes when we think we are ok in the eyes of men...we may not be spiritually in the eyes of God...

Soulful Connections:
How close are you and your spouse spiritually?
http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2007/003/3.26.html

Article talks about how christian couples are doing to develop and maintain that spiritual intimacy.
my comments: not surprisingly, it seems harder to motivate men rather women...why? and most christian women hope and pray that their men take the proactive role...often than not gets disappointed...sometimes i face the same thing too...and i will pray ...and pray...it works so far...God answers prayers

I Had an Emotional Affair:
How "innocent" chats and e-mails nearly destroyed my marriage
http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2005/003/10.56.html

Article talks about how a real life story of a husband using chats and emails ... new age technology can be hidden temptations ...to destroy marriages.
my comments: i personally have to check myself too...not to chat with opposite gender on emotional issues...even if he is a christian bro ....it is also important to be accountable to my spouse whom i chat with....but where exactly is the line drawn?

Is Your Spouse Stressed at Work? 9 things you can do to help.
http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2006/003/6.48.html
Article shares on tips what spouses can do to help relieve some stress for your spouse who is facing work stress.
my comments: it is easy to be affected by the mood of your spouse...but it takes a greater step of faith to stay positive and encouraging ...i am still learning...sometimes i do get affected ...esp when i am also facing stress myself...thats when i need God more...though sometimes you wish your spouse be the one encouraging you...